When next you hear someone saying he doesn’t have time for you,this is what it means:

“There is enough time but there is something more important than you at this moment.”

‘Noooooooo! What do you mean? Are you saying I am not important?’

Relax!Don’t get angry when you hear such going forward.Don’t take it personal this year.


You do the same thing every now and then in your relationship with others.It is an instinctive thing.

It is called ‘prioritizing’.At this moment,you may not be on the priority list,next moment you are.

Let me make it simpler:

Would you take your baby into a job interview and be breastfeeding him while the session is going on?Or while writing your final Bar exams?

Some mothers may do that while others may not.

However,if you don’t,does it mean your baby is not as important as your job or exam?

My answer:”I don’t think there is any need for comparison in the first place.”

Let’s calm down…There is always time to do anything we create time for.However,the time goes to what we prioritize at the moment.

“There is a time for everything,and a season for every activity under the heavens… a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing.”

Take solace in this:”My time will come!”

NB:Someone is feeling demoralized because he/she feels God is ‘prioritizing’ others while he/she is not being favored.Relax,now is your time!